Wedding = stress

So I found out this week that it is going to cost us 500 bucks to use our church for our ceremony which will last like 30 minutes. They didn't tell us that there was money involved and that it was that much when we were taking our premarital counseling with Danny. They just said that we needed to sign some papers which we haven't yet because we moved buildings and now there is someone else in charge because the lady who was moved to the main campus. So I'm a little ticked off. And we are already so over budget with the reception. I think we both are ready to just go to the JP and get it over with...lol. We had a budget and told the Holiday Inn that this was our budget and we new it was going to be a little bit over but now it's like there are all these hidden costs and it's really frustrating. So what we are thinking now is doing a combined reception and ceremony if they'll let us. My friend Stephanie is having her wedding the weekend before ours and hers is outside. I think an outside wedding would be pretty too. There is just nowhere cheap to do a wedding in Denton. Mike (who's my manager) offered up his yard for the wedding. He has like 5 acres. Anyways that is my frustration at the moment.